ABOUT ME
Hi I'm David — I'm on a mission to help couples reconnect before it's too late.
Too often I see couples who started off in fulfilling marriages simply drifted apart silently over time only to realize years later that it's too late once their partner is set on a divorce.
That's why I developed "The Reconnection Method"
a simple 3 STEP process made to fit your lifestyle.
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REFLECT
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REBUILD
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REFINE
My trainings will help you quickly move from tension to teamwork so you can rekindle a relationship centered around intimacy, trust, and deep respect.
I believe every couple shares the goal of having a marriage filled with connection, love, and respect.
When you chose to get married — you made a promise to build a life together.
My approach to coaching will help you realign with your shared purpose so you both can start building the marriage you need, to live the life you want.
BELIEF #1
Marriage is hard if you make it hard. But if you take the time to invest in yourself, and you take the time to invest in your partner, then you realize that marriage is a transformative shift into the highest elevation of who you are.
BELIEF #2
"Happy House, Happy Spouse" is a statement that says "your happiness and my happiness are on equal footing." They're both valuable. They're both valid, and more importantly, they are both focuses that we need to center our time on. A phrase that pushes us into this collective forward marriage revolution where we walk together in our life.
BELIEF #3
The marriage can be duty, but it also can be fun. You are co-partnering in life for growth, adventure, and abundance. Take time to be playful, curious, and have a sense of wonder to explore new things together. Remember, you get what you put into the relationship, so have fun along the way.
Why I'm A Relationship Coach
...is because I know what it feels like when a marriage falls apart—because I lived it.
My father was a surgeon specializing in Urology, and my mother served as a commander in the Navy. Two incredibly strong individuals—yet their marriage ended in an intense, years-long divorce that drained them emotionally and financially.
They lost over 7 Figures in legal battles.
My brother and I lost our sense of stability. We were shuffled between homes, caught in the middle of chaos we never asked for.
When I was 14, my father died unexpectedly. The grief was unimaginable. It was the final blow to a family already fractured. My mother worked difficult jobs to raise us on her own
and that experience didn’t just shape me— it gave me a mission.
I became a professional relationship coach to help couples reconnect before it’s too late.
Because the cost of disconnection isn’t just financial—it’s generational. It ripples through children, family legacy, and the emotional well-being of everyone involved.
I coach from experience, not just education.
I’ve spent thousands of hours helping men and women understand each other, rebuild trust, communicate better, and create marriages grounded in emotional safety, respect, and shared purpose.
My 10 Principles
For A Healthy Marriage
#1 Intention
Your life improves through intentional actions that show "we are one", "we are a team", and thus no matter what differences show up - our intentions are to be truthful, honest, and have clarity with one another as a way to support one another.
#2 Integrity
The alignment of your actions when people are watching you versus not watching you.
#3 Sacrifice
A sacred marriage requires a sacrifice. You must sacrifice the bachelor to become the husband. You must sacrifice the bachelorette to become the wife. There's need to be an obligation that each person strives to present and be the best versions of themselves which requires you to self-audit and self-evaluate. It's important to understand that some things that served you as a single person and as an individual may in direct conflict with you as a unified person in a marriage. Sacred marriages require sacrifice because the sacrifice of the individual for the whole is what elevates the marriage to be sacred.
#4 Transparency
Transparency is one of the most crucial things to create trust and clarity in the marriage. When you have nothing to hide, you walk different. The energetic signature that you push off into the world becomes something undeniable when you are transparent with your partner.
Transparency says, "if you're going to be my partner, you need to know who I was before us as much as you know who I am right now and who I am becoming". Transparency is a gift that you offer your your partner, so they can see and love the whole you.
#5 Curiosity
Curiosity is the idea of being investigative and exploring to integrate playfulness and patience and openness to explore the ideas that your partner says.
Curiosity comes from, the root word of "to care". And if we remain curious. And we have curiosity in our marriage and in our life in general. We keep the energy of caring alive. Caring to know, caring to understand, caring to feel what your partner feels and values.
#6 Honor & Respect
Honor and respect are paired together because it's hard to have one without the other. And we talk about honor and respect in a marriage. We're talking about private and public, and there should be no difference. And how we honor and respect our partners in private, in public.
You defend our partner's honor and respect by not sharing vulnerable pieces publicly or airing out our dirty laundry. You do not throw them under the bus or humiliate them publicly. You have a unified understanding of what is shared out into society.
#7 Trust
Predictability plus consistency equals trust. If you are not predictable to your partner and you are not consistent with your partner, then your partner cannot trust you. And trust is such an important thing in life. You must have the utmost understanding that you can trust your partner with your finances, your love, your secrets, your heart, your emotions, your dreams to have, and then to return that favor to them as well.
#8 Maintenance
Maintenance marriage is not and should never be thought of being on autopilot. It's a constant evolving fluid system. It is an ecosystem between that, it only exists between two people and the harmony that you two come together to create.
The people that you were when you first met is different than who you are not. Remember, marriages evolve and you're going become something radically different later in life. There's going to be multiple stages and different seasons of existence that happens throughout your lifetime together. And maintenance is vital to keeping you both aligned throughout the years.
#9 Playfulness
Playfulness is connecting with your inner child and your partner's inner child to be playful with somebody is a combination of several of the past principles we've talked about. Trust, curiosity, intention, transparency. To be playful with your partner means that you accept them being goofy and do not cast judgment on them for not being perfect.
To be playful with someone is to connect with their inner child because at the end of the day, the argument can be made that there's no such thing as adults. There's just children with more responsibilities in fancy suits and fancy dresses. We are children and the heart of the child that lives within us is one of the most powerful connectors in the companionship piece of life and in marriage.
#10 Paying It Forward
This is a statement that's focused on life beyond you and your home. You want to be the change you want to see in the world. Your legacy, your energetic encounters with life, the fingerprint that you leave on society and leaving guideposts for the next generation.
To pay it forward as a couple means that you get to extend outside of the home and you get to become bigger. This is such a powerful thing because it's a vehicle that you and your partner can ride in together. It can make it so that you guys can be seen and experience and promote things together, that there is an energetic output that is greater than the sum of the parts.
It is an exponentially expansive power when the husband and the wife come together to give it, give their love, give their life, give their energy to something. It's this exponential pump that pushes forward.
